Male survivor of sexual abuse.

What happens to a child after he/she suffers sexual abuse?

LewisUniversity Sexual abuse in childhood has serious and lasting psychological consequences. Long term psychological correlates of childhood sexual abuse include depression, suicidal tendencies, sexual dysfunction, self-mutilation, chronic anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, dissociation and memory impairment. Dr. Natalia Tapia, assistant professor of Justice, Law and Public Safety Studies at Lewis University, is the author of “Survivors…

Tinder_Age_Chart
|

Tinder – Increasing police surveillance

Without context, it’s difficult for AI to detect behaviours and language that are harmful to users. NSW Police want access to Tinder’s sexual assault data. Cybersafety experts explain why it’s a date with disaster (theconversation.com) There’s no evidence to suggest that granting police access to sexual assault reports will increase users’ safety on dating apps,…

anxiety
| |

Perfectionistic cognitions appear to play a key role in clinical anxiety

x Perfectionist cognitions include expectations about achieving perfection such as, “I can’t stand to make mistakes.” Perfectionistic cognitions appear to play a key role in clinical anxiety (psypost.org) Perfectionism involves a desire to perform to the highest standards without allowing room for failure. People with perfectionist beliefs tend to be overly self-critical and put pressure…

Apple and chalkboard.

Self-talk can enhance your cognitive performance

Research shows that self-talk may help the brain perform better. In experiments designed to measure cognitive performance, participants read instructions and then do the task. Some participants read their instructions silently, others out loud. Results generally show that reading aloud helps us sustain concentration and improves our performance. Why Should You Talk to Yourself? | Psychology Today Speaking of…

Social media as medication

Attachment Styles In The Digital Age

Do you seek reassurances from your virtual friends? Do you use social media for emotional escape?  Why Knowing Our Attachment Style Matters In The Digital Age | Psychology Today 1. Practice mindfulness in interactions. Do you often feel insecure with a romantic partner or feel anger and distrust with your best friend? Do you find you post more often…

Inner Child Healing | Wu Wei Wisdom

Inner Child Healing | Wu Wei Wisdom

Childhood trauma is often described as serious adverse childhood experiences (ACEs).[1] Children may go through a range of experiences that classify as psychological trauma, these might include neglect,[2]abandonment,[2]sexual abuse, and physical abuse,[2] witnessing abuse of a sibling or parent, or having a mentally ill parent. These events have profound psychological, physiological, and sociological impacts and can have negative, lasting effects on health and well-being. Kaiser…

Wu Wei

Wu-wei, ancient sages understood that emotions are physical.

 The Dao De Jing points out that we should be like water, which is ‘submissive and weak’ and ‘yet which can’t be surpassed for attacking what is hard and strong’.  Wu Wei – Doing Nothing 無爲 -The School of Life Articles | Formerly The Book of Life There are many practices in Chinese culture that reveal this…

Te Whāriki Takapou – successful sexual and reproductive health promotion with Māori

Characteristics of successful sexual and reproductive health promotion with Māori In the four sections that follow, the characteristics of successful sexual and reproductivehealth promotion with Māori, drawn from selected literature, are elaborated in relationto each of the four elements of the Pōhiri model. The elements are: Pōhiri – Planning and relationship-building; Harirū – Partnership; Hākari…

Oranga Tamariki – Identify abuse
|

Oranga Tamariki – Identify abuse

Oranga Tamariki – Some of the signs Physical signs such as: Unexplained bruises, welts, cuts and abrasions Unexplained fractures or dislocations Burn marks Other signs: No clear explanation for any of the above Behavioural concerns such as emotional withdrawal, aggression or anxiety Developmental delays, changes or signs The child talking about or subtly mentioning things…