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Sexual Abuse and Eating Disorders: What’s the Connection?
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Ken Clearwater & Jacinda Ardern
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Narcissistic people are more likely to be attracted to ordained ministry
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Simply ask them outright, from a position of empathy
If all of these routes seem counter-intuitive to you, you may just be better asking your partner point blank if there is something they would like to talk about and if there is anything you can do to help them if they are unhappy. This can work wonders because it will show them that you’re…