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#Different #person #14 #77

#Different #person #14 #77

Bybetterblokesnz

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Realists do best

Realists do best

Bybetterblokesnz

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Trauma is irreversible. How it shapes us is our choice. | Sasha Joseph Neulinger | TEDxBozeman

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A more nuanced concept of privilege: the term “intersectionality”

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