Connolly: my terror at years of sexual abuse Billy Connolly, one of Britain’s greatest comedians … overcame drink, drugs and the demons of his past with the help of his wife. https://www.theguardian.com/uk/2001/sep/23/vanessathorpe.theobserver Image: “Billy Connolly” by Sean Reynolds is licensed under CC BY 2.0Continue Reading
Barry Gibb reveals shocking childhood trauma He had doubts about speaking of the incident but has described his escape from a pedophile as “lucky”. https://startsat60.com/media/news/barry-gibb-reveals-shocking-childhood-trauma Image: “Glasto17-198” by Ralph_PH is licensed under CC BY 2.0Continue Reading
It is common for friends and families – and even organisatons – to disbelieve children who say they have been sexually abused (even though it is extremely rare for children to make up abuse allegations) and instead back abusers. https://www.rnz.co.nz/news/in-depth/462406/the-town-that-backed-a-child-sex-abuser This mother did not allow adversity to stop her fromContinue Reading
On your phone and missing out on life’s moments? Now may be a time to reflect on usage patterns and consider what connections are most helpful. As modern life has grown more distanced through technological innovation, our opportunities for deep, intimate moments have dwindled. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/jan/31/age-of-intimacy-famine-interact-with-phones-rather-than-loved-onesContinue Reading
Te Aorerekura sets a collective ambition to create peaceful homes where children, families and whānau thrive; to enable safe communities where all people are respected; and to support the wellbeing of our nation. It represents an evolution in our journey to address violence in our homes and communities. https://violencefree.govt.nz/assets/National-strategy/Finals-translations-alt-formats/Te-Aorerekura-National-Strategy-final.pdf Source:Continue Reading
UPDATE 14 February 2022: New Zealand’s COVID-19 Protection Framework (‘traffic light system’) is now in place. Courts have implemented protocols that guide court operations under all stages of the Framework. Courts remain an essential service throughout all COVID-19 restrictions, but may operate differently. Since Sunday 23 January 2022, all of AotearoaContinue Reading
Calling out fear – survivors often internalise the fear they’ve seen. It’s important to find a safe place to talk and rebuild confidence. Survivor advocate Ken Clearwater has been helping victims of abuse for 25 years and believes Marylands was among the worst of the Catholic institutions. https://www.newshub.co.nz/home/new-zealand/2022/02/marylands-school-child-sex-abuse-survivor-says-he-was-shown-corpse-to-stop-him-speaking-out.htmlContinue Reading
Progress… more awareness, more men speaking up, more support organisations. It’s estimated as many as one in six men have been sexually abused or assaulted but very few ask for help, according to Neil. https://www.bbc.com/news/newsbeat-59900107Continue Reading
Reaching out for help takes courage. Acknowledge your bravery irrelevant of the outcome; and don’t forget to keep connecting with support throughout the process. “Changing that mindset from being an insurance company to being a company that’s helping people recover.” https://www.rnz.co.nz/national/programmes/checkpoint/audio/2018823772/acc-assessors-told-to-watch-for-sexual-assault-survivors-exaggerating-symptomsContinue Reading
Being heard, being acknowledged – powerful steps towards building trust and confidence. The government intends to create a new, independent redress system for survivors of abuse in state care and faith-based institutions. Its exact design is yet to be decided, but will be developed in collaboration with survivors, Māori, PacificContinue Reading
