Myth: Psychotherapists blame a client’s problem on their upbringing.

Despite the theatric antics of Dr. Phil, a well-trained therapist doesn’t blame or shame. They don’t blame clients or their parents. They bring an objective, bird’s-eye perspective to help clients see the water they’re swimming in and allow them to take responsibility for their lives. Professional therapists never admonish, blame, or shame clients into change.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-right-mindset/202005/10-common-myths-about-therapy