We are inherently sexual creatures and that sex is something inherently positive,

We take Miley’s cue and we come out — and not just about our sexuality and our gender identity but also about our sexual appetites. We own up to actually having sexual appetites — and not just for procreating and not just the missionary position with the lights out — and then we actually own them and use them to live happier, more productive lives. If we’re queer, we stop being ashamed of being queer or being attracted to partners who fall outside of the range of who our society has told us we should be attracted to. If we’re not queer, we affirm our queer brothers and sisters and not just when they look and act like non-queer people. We embrace whatever makes gives us pleasure and doesn’t hurt anyone else (unless they’re asking us to hurt them) and we stop feeling guilty about giving and receiving pleasure. We celebrate being impressively talented bottoms or our love of big feet with beautiful arches or just how good it feels to be with someone (or several someones) who wants to make us feel good. If we’re not open to “every single thing,” as Miley is — and we don’t have to be, understanding our limits and boundaries is healthy! — then at the very least, we’re open to respecting each other’s desires and decisions.