Thursday, March 21, 2019
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Psychologist: Kiwis ‘triggered’ to get help by Michael Jackson doco Leaving Neverland

New Zealand Herald: Psychologist: Kiwis 'triggered' to get help by Michael Jackson doco Leaving Neverland. https://www.nzherald.co.nz/entertainment/news/article.cfm?c_id=1501119&objectid=12212241 A New Zealand psychologist says there's been a marked increase in the number of patients seeking help following the airing of controversial sexual abuse documentary Leaving Neverland. The two-part documentary aired in New Zealand on Sunday and

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Grooming less of an individual but a whole culture

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/mar/08/michael-jackson-groom-entire-culture And the prominence of these men, across different worlds and eras, has traditionally been a part of their camouflage. It seemed to me, after watching Leaving Neverland, that the biggest grooming project was less of any one individual than of a culture as a whole. Most of us are primed

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Watch “Oprah Winfrey Full Interview ‘Leaving Neverland’ Michael Jackson Accusers” on YouTube

https://youtu.be/_aWjKDih1G8 https://www.radionz.co.nz/national/programmes/sunday/audio/2018685882/dan-reed-leaving-neverland-should-not-stop-jackson-s-music "It's sad to say it and it's horrific to say it but they were enjoying the attention and they felt that they had a very precious and special relationship with their abuser.  "He was kind and the kindness that he displayed I think sort of still resonates and you know the

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Vanity Fair: “Especially for male victims”, he said, “it has to be on their terms”

https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2019/03/10-undeniable-facts-about-the-michael-jackson-sexual-abuse-allegations Both Robson and Safechuck previously testified under oath that Jackson never touched them, but there is good reason to believe they are telling the truth now. Ron Zonen, a prosecutor in the 2005 trial who has tried many sex-abuse cases, told me he understood why Wade Robson and Jimmy Safechuck came

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Why I’m Here | Oprah Winfrey Presents: After Neverland

https://youtu.be/mrmOH1uKe5k Wikipedia In January 2019, the Jackson estate issued a press release condemning the film, saying: "The two accusers testified under oath that these events never occurred. They have provided no independent evidence and absolutely no proof in support of their accusations."[8] Despite protests by Jackson fans, the Sundance Film

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More men are sex assault victims than women

https://torontosun.com/news/world/more-men-are-sex-assault-victims-than-women-author?fbclid=IwAR1tXkRH60cV_SSxCo86za_0SgNs35EdW7BilvuVUSJQiJPH6gWWWJ5Hwjk She added: “Give me a man who is honest about his sexuality and at some point he will say that he has had a sexually damaging experience in his life. It’s not bad sex that they don’t enjoy, it’s the sex they don’t want. It’s sex that involves the abuse

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Was I assaulted ?

http://toah-nnest.org.nz/get-help/survivors/was-i-assaulted?fbclid=IwAR1QoRasD-KkgcENxD8SU1N9279_989pUZV1kJ0TiRRdwxG1owrdUjh_gr4 Sexual assault is any unwanted sexual contact. This includes sexual contact made by opportunity (e.g. you were intoxicated and could not say no), coercion, intimidation, threats or the use of force. It is important to remember that sexual assault takes many forms, some of which do not involve penetration. Grabbing

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CDC: men and women equally experience nonconsensual sex

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/sexual-victimization-by-women-is-more-common-than-previously-known/ The results were surprising. For example, the CDC’s nationally representative data revealed that over one year, men and women were equally likely to experience nonconsensual sex, and most male victims reported female perpetrators. Over their lifetime, 79 percent of men who were “made to penetrate” someone else (a form of rape, in

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